1st rule: Never be needy. Make them want you not beg them to like you.
Now you wanna know how to make girls WANT you. Here's how.
1. Have CONFIDENCE. Not arrogant. Be confident. Never show a girl that you are shy on doing something. There is no girl in a world that would want a chicken boyfriend--A guy who can't even look straight to her eyes. Confidence is sexy. Girls love it when guys are active. Guys who can socialize. Guys who are not afraid to volunteer on dares. Guys who can wear anything without thinking of other people's negative comments.
2. Never be too emotional. It is not right to feel so upset when you didn't receive a message from her. Just relax and go on improving yourself. Never ever make her feel obliged to message you, specially if you are not yet in a relationship. Girls prefer guys who have strong personalities. A guy who always joke around with girls is better than a guy who is always beg for for love. My tip is just to have fun. Don't force her to want you. Patience is the key. Do not think that beautiful girls are so high that you can't reach them. If you think that way, you're not going to have any chance.
3. Sense of humor. Not the goofy type of funny person. You don't want to be a clown. You want to be a confident man commenting on things in a funny/witty way. Spontaneity follows. You should be able to think fast and have a witty response on what she's saying or what's happening around you. It should be witty and funny. But not all the time.. Be relax. Don't try too hard because when she realizes that you are trying to be funny and it's not natural, she is now equipped with a shield for your weapon. Every time you have a funny comment, she'll be thinking that you're trying hard. And it'll be useless. The secret is to enjoy. Don't do it because you want to get her.. Do it because you are a fun-to-be-with person.
4. Bad boy? Nah.. It's not the badness of the guys that women want. It's the confidence and the adventurous nature of these bad boys. The "Bad Boys" are the one who are not afraid to try anything new. They wont bore their girls with shitty walk-around-the-park thing. Restaurant dates are alright but there are a lot more things to do than to eat steak on a plate while chatting. This is the advantage of bad boys. They will bring their girls in places they never imagined they could ever be. They will let their girls try new things may it be safe or dare-devil ones. To summarize, bad boys know how to live life!
5. Be unpredictable. This one of the most important thing you should keep in mind. You don't want a girl to know exactly what you are going to say or do. Predictable guys are equal to boring guys. Don't say same things over and over again. No matter how good that line is. Be playful on words and tell her how you feel. Be sincere because girls have a detector and they can really tell if a guy's words are from his heart.
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