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Some tips to have a good conversation with your date

1. Don't start by saying same things over and over again.. "How are you?" "What are you doing?" "Have you eaten?" Be creative.

2. Avoid interviews. Don't ask her "How old are you? What's your father's name? mother? brother? sister? define love?" You are not building intimacy between you and your girl with those senseless questions. Remember, people may forget everything about you except for 1 thing-- How you made them feel. You want to have the impression of being fun. You can show your interest to her by asking open-ended questions.

3. Be a good listener. Most girls love to tell stories. Don't be absent minded. You should have a response showing that you understood what she's talking about. Here comes the rule of having witty remarks.

4. Be keen with details. Girls will tell you some things that they like; some important dates or places etc. You can use these details to your advantage. Example: A girl tells you that she never experienced going to prom... Now, your move. Take advantage of the fact that she never attended a prom. Example response: Design a place and make it romantic. Then, on a friday night, take her there, dance with her and tell her "Now you're attending a prom". Ok, it is not a true prom but the fact that you remember what she said and you exerted an effort FOR HER. It is priceless. This is only an example. I know you guys can do better. ;)

5. Just relax. Don't try to impress her. Your goal is to hang out. Be playful. Serious conversations have 0.0000001% of attraction. I can never forget the saying--"If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything." LOL it sounds evil but it's just an exaggeration. Even you guys want friends who are fun to jam with.

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